A sanctuary for your relational field.
For people who carry relationships with care.
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Early beta · Opening slowly
For people who carry relationships with care.
Early beta · Opening slowly
You think of someone you care about.
You realize it's been months.
You don't know exactly why.
Held is for that moment.
Before guilt. Before fixing. Before stories.
Just noticing.
You care deeply about your people.
Your partner, your parents, your friends—and the ones who are quietly drifting.
Over time, patterns begin to emerge:
where you pull back
who you avoid being honest with
who gets your care, and who doesn't
where you disappear from yourself while tending others
Held gives you a container to see the whole shape.
Without judgment, pressure, or performance.
What would you notice
if you could watch yourself
across all your relationships over time?
Something you can return to.
Three layers, working together.
A living field
All your relationships—partner, parents, friends, clients, yourself—visible at a glance.
Who's steady. Who's drifting. Who needs attention.
Like a garden you tend to.
Reflection with memory
When you reflect, the system already knows your history:
when you last connected, what you noted, the rhythm you tend to keep.
Held reflects back what's there.
Rhythm, not urgency
Each relationship moves at its own cadence.
The practice has gravity—you don't have to remember to perform presence.
You just come back, whenever you're ready.
1Add the relationships that matter to you
2Mark when you connect—one tap, no ceremony
3Reflect privately, with context already held
4Notice patterns over time
That's it.
No streaks. No reminders. No "should."
Weekly
Who's been on your mind?
Who needs presence?
Monthly
What's steady?
What's drifting?
Seasonal
What's completing?
What's beginning?
Life will pull you away.
That's expected.
Held is here when you return.
•People doing inner work who want to see relational patterns
•Those who care deeply how they show up for others, and for themselves
•Practitioners, caregivers, and steady presences in others' lives
•Anyone who senses repetition but can't quite see it yet
This isn't about optimizing relationships.
It's for being honest with them.
Private by design
No sharing. No feeds. No audience.
Your reflections belong to you.
AI reflection is powered by Claude. Your data is never stored by Anthropic or used for training.
Mirror, not mentor
The AI reflects patterns and asks questions.
It doesn't tell you what to do.
Gentle by default
No notifications. No guilt loops. No urgency.
Presence is an invitation.
Built slowly, on purpose
Held was created as an act of care.
It's slow software for a fast world.
Same access. Same practice.
Based on your capacity.
Try it for 30 days.
Then choose $11, $22, or $33 per month.
Those who contribute a little more help keep the practice accessible.
Reciprocity, not scarcity.
Held is opening slowly,
to people who recognize themselves here.
If this feels like something you'd return to,
you're welcome to join the waitlist.
It's an invitation.